Jai Sivananda: My relationship with yoga: why I feel terrible if I ...

So, today after the bootcamp, as we sat with chai and biscuits, Pallavi, my student and bootcamp participant, asked me if there are days when I feel I should slacken from my practice. It is difficult to talk of this, since the subject is not about the body. And also, I believe, that not many will understand what I am speaking of though the ultimate purpose of yoga is only That. So, yes, also if I feel the person is not going to understand what I am saying, I choose not to answer and give some silly answer that is vague.. that is what to do:) I rather sound stupid than reveal what cannot be grasped, largely.

 If I did yoga  for fitness reasons then, yes, maybe, I may wish to take a day.. But for me, there is something else, in my practice..

I do not do it for my body.. and that perhaps explains why my relationship with yoga is more enduring .

. I crave for That! I believe That equally, It craves for me. But where my thoughts come  then, It steps back, like a jealous lover. Then I am bereft and lost, like a lover who has been neglected. . I do it because I want to empty myself, of ego, so that I keep my mindspace clean, so It will, like that beautiful wild parrot that squawks at my Kuteer window, will come and I will catch a glimpse of That -- . I do my practice, for That! I do my practice because then, the curtain lifts, and I catch a glimpse of That, tantalising -- but far, as long as I remain stuck in my human musings.. It won't descend, because it rather you ascended, elevated, sublimated, to its level..

This is not a subject obviously intended for the one who thinks all such talk is cheesy.. each one to his/her own. But my practice has nothing to do with the body, my body.

The Thing I crave for, it does not like ego.. it would not even like if I got attached to yoga!!! . I do yoga because I am detached from my practice. I do it, for That:) And that, for the uninitiated, while this may seem like awkward attempt at poetry, actually the real purpose of yoga is only that.. the final annihilation of the self and the final consummation with something that cannot be described by words.  Yoga has no other purpose from that.. it has nothing to do with flexibility of the body, or strength, or contrived contortions. It is because, if you hold the pose and watch the waves of the mind rise and fall, and step back from all that, the practice  allows the right emptiness which invites what all seekers have sought, for centuries.


 And which, the Vedanta says, is the only purpose of human existence:) And yoga, it is a tool crafted for that...Yoga has no other purpose than that.. the rest of that, that is part of the progress, so the body stays firmly together till the spirit reaches where it must.. and the mind does not collapse, till the spirit consummates its longing... 


It is not religion. It is not science. It is definitely not biology, or about body aesthetics or body cosmetics.

It is an experience, mystical,  for those who are going mad in a the practical,  yoga way:) A mad person, fully aware of her madness, that is my yoga:) Not this body, that is not my yoga.

 Ko ham? Na deham, na deham. So ham, so ham 
(That was Adi Shankaracharya, describing  his yoga:)  Who am I? Not this body, not this body. I am That. I am That. 


When that is the relationship u have with your yoga, the practice is not difficult. How silly to say you do not want to meet your beloved because you felt lazy? Not doing your practice, becomes that, when u become a true yoga lunatic:) 

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Better Sex Through Yoga, by Jacquie Noelle GreauxIn Better Sex Through Yoga, Jacquie Noelle Greaux and Jennifer Langheld discuss in detail how yoga can make your sex life better by boosting your sex drive and enhancing physical pleasure. For those who already practice yoga, this concept is a no-brainer: yoga makes you physically stronger and more flexible, it improves your stamina and muscle control, gives you more energy, and helps you develop a thorough knowledge of how your own body works, all of which can lead to improved physical performance in the bedroom. Further, yoga practice often leads to increased self-confidence and a more open and compassionate heart, and yoga is proven to relieve stress, so practicing yoga can help with the emotional and spiritual side of sex as well.

In the first few chapters, Greaux and Langheld discuss all of these benefits, going into detail about why both yoga and sex are good for you and how practicing one can benefit the other. In chapter 3, they embark on a yoga primer for those who’ve never practiced it before, including coverage of yoga breathing and the chakras.

The bulk of the book is in chapter 4, which offers a detailed breakdown of each pose Greaux and Langheld use in the Better Sex Through Yoga program. There’s a brief description of each pose, detailed instructions on how to perform the pose, notes on which chakras benefit, which areas of the body are worked, and which sexual positions work the same muscles, followed by a “hot tip” for improving your posture in the pose and/or your sexual use of the pose. In addition to yoga poses, Greaux and Langheld also pull from pilates and dance moves to provide a full body workout. Duo-assisted poses are offered, as well as poses you can do at your desk at work. There are photographs of each and every pose, often demonstrating step by step how to accomplish the pose.

In chapters 5 and 6, the individual poses are pulled together into a series of routines. There are three core routines and eight quickie routines, which offers the reader some flexibility in her yoga practice depending on how much time she has available. The routines vary widely, and there are routines specially designed for being stuck in a chair at the office, calming down after a stressful day, or stretching out quickly before joining a partner in the bedroom. Chapter 7 ties it all together by giving a list of sexual positions, with an illustration and a description for each telling how your yoga practice will deepen your sexual satisfaction.

I have some conflicted feelings about this book, so I’ll get the negative stuff out of the way first. Greaux and Langheld obviously have a target audience in mind: straight women (lesbians could certainly use this book to improve their sex lives too, but they’re clearly not the target audience), women who probably work in offices, and who are already in fairly good physical shape and are already physically active. I think this book would be difficult to use for someone who was overweight or someone limited in their flexibility. That’s not to say that yoga wouldn’t help those people, or that those people can’t have hot sex, just that the book seems geared toward women who resemble Greaux herself, as Greaux models all the poses (there’s a male model as well, credited in the back of the book as the “Living Male Work of Art” – he’s good at yoga poses but I’d almost rather see him on a naughty birthday card). You can see Greaux on the book’s cover, doing a split. Photographs of less flexible people might have been more helpful for those who are true yoga beginners.

The routines are definitely intended to be vinyasa style: each routine includes a lot of poses, with instructions that you should work up to practicing for 30-45 minutes. They expect you to move fast through these routines, and that’s not necessarily what beginners can or should do, unless they’re already very used to exercise. From my perspective as a yoga teacher, I didn’t appreciate how the routines would bounce you up and down: you do some standing poses, then some seated poses, then you stand up again, then you get back down to the floor. That sort of thing is more difficult for beginners or those with limited mobility, and it’s also contrary to my understanding of the purpose of practicing yoga (but then again, practicing yoga to prepare the mind and body for meditation is different from practicing yoga to prepare the body for hot sex, so really there is a different purpose here). Finally, the writing style is really sensationalist – I think they must have had a rule in place to make sure they used the word “sexy” at least twice per page. That’s the sort of thing that drives me nuts.

But, all that aside, the content here is really very good. The section on poses is great because it’s quite thorough and it does tell you exactly what part of the body you’re working in each pose and how that helps you in bed. The authors don’t shy away from detail. In some cases the authors have altered the traditional pose, but it’s clear to me (as a yoga teacher, anyway) why they’ve done it and what the sexual benefit of doing the pose a different way would be. They’ve incorporated moves from pilates and dance, but the ones I’ve tried so far are easy and clearly have some bedroom benefits. The routines get you up and down and up and down, but they’re otherwise well structured to be full body workouts. Finally, the “sexy secretary” sections, which modify poses so they can be done from a desk chair, are brilliant. I’ll be photocopying these and surreptitiously doing them at the office.

The sexysexy language, while troubling, is the maple syrup on the vegetables: the real message here is the idea that yoga isn’t just good for your sex life, it’s good for you as a person. The authors don’t leave out the emotional, mental, and spiritual benefits of doing yoga. In fact, when they list the reasons why yoga improves your sex life, the very first thing on the list is compassion, the ability to love and be loved. The language used sounds shallow, but the core message is not, and I really think the authors want to reach a wide range of readers and improve their lives. I liked the book a lot and would recommend it to anyone with a working knowledge of yoga who can take the sexysexy talk with a grain of salt and move on to the practical stuff.

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Hotel Amenities at Leela Kovalam Beach Resort in Kovalam in regards to sports and recreation include 3 freshwater Swimming pools, a modern gym, an Ayurvedic Health center, a Yoga and Meditation center. Facilities also exist for table tennis, lawn tennis, pool table, badminton and video games among others. Kovalam Beach Resort also has two private beaches for you to swim, sunbath or indulge in other water sport activities.The other Hotel Amenities at Leela Kovalam Beach Resort in Kovalam include : Travel Desk, Laundry Service, Concierge Desk, Beauty Salon, Library, Doctor on Call, Curency Exchange, Car Rental, Car Parking, 24 Hour Front Desk.

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My impression is that you are jumping to conclusions and casting too small of a net. From what you have shared so far, I agree that your psoas may be a part of the issue, but ONLY part of the issue. Same goes for the diaphragm. I am also concerned about the possibility of pelvic torsion, which I see frequently, and that may need to be resolved prior to everything else.

When addressing the psoas, also consider the possibility that iliacus may be as bad or worse. Movements/stretches intended to lengthen psoas need to be modified to adequately lengthen iliacus. With anterior pelvic tilt, you can be assured that rectus abdominus is affected, and I'd expect to find significant tender spots and possible trigger points at the upper attachments around the lower sternum and costal arch. Your diaphragm may need attention, but it may simply be a victim of your tight/short pectoralis major and minor (especially minor) and upper intercostals.

Habitual shallow breathing tends to be the norm when your shoulders are rounded and your head is projected forward. Do you also tend to clench/grind your teeth? How about headaches? My guess is that we'd find significant tenderness in your lats and infraspinatus too, both of which internally rotate the shoulders, further hunching you and restricting your breathing. When freedom of breathing is restricted, you are always at risk of an adrenal dump in response to perceived threat, real or imagined. I learned this the hard way... and also learned to overcome it.

Fiddling with loosening your psoas and diaphragm alone will not give you the results you desire. Instead, take a full-body approach to reclaiming your natural right to stand upright and breath freely and calmly. Bodywork is great and can help. A comprehensive program of targeted stretching may also help. However, I feel that the easiest, most time-effective approach to self-help for you would be a simple program of daily mobility and breath drills, with yoga and bodywork to supplement them.

There are many products on the market, but the only one I know of that may meet all your (initial) needs is this one: Intu-Flow, available online here: http://www.profcs.com/app/?Clk=2134591. I've used it for years, recommended it hundreds (thousands?) of times, and still stand by it. Practice it daily for a month and see what changes you experience. Do yoga too if you like; Intu-Flow is a perfect warmup/cooldown for yoga practice. I used to teach it as a part of my yoga classes, and it helped everyone, even the advanced practitioners.

Have fun with it! :)

SamCO wrote:Hi-
I have had chronic fatigue for many years and on my own have healed many aspects of this. I just was not getting help. But I also recognize I have very old emotional issues. I am a psychotherapist by training but at the moment have not been working as much as I have been trying to get well and because one of the symptoms I've had many years is panic attacks. I have read in a number of places the relationship between the psoas and panic even from a bodywork person who had them..... with the tightness in the upper ab area, which is my manifestation as well.
I have done quite a bit of reading and its pretty clear that the psoas is the culprit (tilted pelvis, some lower back but mostly in upper ab as I describe below) and I also recognize the significance of the psoas and unresolved and unconscious emotion.
I am not in a position to see a bodywork person right now so am looking for ideas of what I can do on my own to work with the psoas. I sure wish I had the money to, but things are tough right now.
I currently do a few things but want to make sure I am on track. I do a few stretches and some visualizations and a variety of emotional release energy modalities.
One problem is that because of the blocked area in the base of sternum area from the tight psoas its easy to do much because when the adrenals get stimulated... the adrenal energy comes upward into that area at the base of sternum and it can be unpleasant. This has been slow because of that. I want to open the muscle but not create too much stimulation for now until things are more open.
Hope that all made sense :}
thanks for your help
I think info on diaphragm release (yoga or other ideas) would be helpful as well as one responder has suggested.
Sam

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